January 2021 - 2 Minute Trainer

See your dog and adapt to the dog you see

There’s a saying in dog training “train the dog in front of you.” It’s good advice, as long as you see your dog. Like every person, every dog is unique. Our job, as our dog’s world interpreter, is to explain things how that dog needs.

Tango demonstrated it this week

See the dog in front of you and adapt! Fran saw that Tango was having trouble understanding the game when the pins were staggered.

If you’ve been following along in our newsletter, you know that Tango, Fran’s 11-year-old Brussels Griffon has been learning how to “bowl” – knocking over toy bowling pins. Tango loves playing training games, but he’s not the fastest to catch onto things. Fran’s learned over the years that he does eventually get it – as long as it’s explained in bits he understands.

Last week he showed us that he doesn’t understand when the pin layout is staggered. He was okay as long as they were in a straight line, but the small difference was too great a leap for him.

Booker (Fran’s Boston) and Torque (Hope’s French Bulldog) had no problem generalizing from a straight line to a staggered one. But Tango does. Fran has to train Tango where he is.

No comparing to others

Saying (or thinking) “But So-And-So got it right away! Why doesn’t Whatsit understand?” isn’t helpful. Whatsit is a different dog than So-And-So and needs to be taught differently. Even if they’re the same breed. Even if they’re siblings.

Fran and Hope are sisters. They sport a distinct family resemblance and have often been mistaken for one another. But they’re very different people. Hope learns by listening, Fran is a visual learner.

It’s up to you to see your dog and figure out how best to manage the steps of teaching your dog any new behavior – whether it’s a fun trick, not pulling on leash, or greeting guests politely.

Seeing your dog

Dogs always do what’s most rewarding for them. And it could be anything – from food, to toys, to attention from you. Playing training games with you should be the most rewarding of all – they get both your attention and a physical reward as well.

If your dog is loving the games, but just not understanding what you’re teaching, it’s up to you to adapt to the dog in front of you. See your dog. Figure out what works and what’s baffling. Go back to where your dog was successful and take smaller steps forward. (Read more about setting your dog up for success.)

Next time, Tango’s bowling pins will start in a straight line. One in the middle will move slightly for each repetition. When that one is no longer a problem, another one will move slightly each time. Because that’s how Tango has shown us he needs to learn. We want to keep challenging him, with a goal we know he can reach.

Click here to see Tango’s latest bowling session (YouTube will open in a new tab.)

Your dog will show you who he/she is. See your actual dog. And train the dog in front of you.

When your dog gets on your nerves

Does your dog make you crazy sometimes?

Every once in a while, do you just want to be alone? Especially in the shower?

Everybody has those days. And, over the last few months with more time at home, things that normally wouldn’t have bothered you are now getting on your nerves. It’s okay. It’s normal.

Perspective is everything

We saw a cartoon on social media the other day. In the first panel two people were talking on the phone. One said to the other something like “2020 was the worst year ever. Stuck at home for months!” In the second panel, two dogs are sitting together and one says to the other “2020 was the best year ever! My person was home all the time!”

For people, dogs are an important part of our lives, but they’re not our whole lives. We have family, friends, work, school, social groups, etc. Our dogs have us.

Best life for everyone

We certainly don’t have to feel sorry for any of our dogs. They have fantastic lives, with little, if anything, to worry about. They have food, shelter, companionship. And no bills to pay.

For us, the responsibility gets to be a little much sometimes. Especially if we’re feeling stress in other aspects of our lives. We don’t mean to take our feelings out on our dogs, but sometimes they do get in the “line of fire” for our worries. Every once in a while, they just get on our nerves.

When you’re feeling overwhelmed, as we all do sometimes, it’s okay to take a break from your dog. It doesn’t mean you don’t love them. It means that you need some time to yourself. And, certainly, don’t start a training session when you’re feeling that way. (See this post: “Only 2 emotions allowed in dog training.”)

Take the time you need

For some of us, going for a walk with our dogs is a chance to relax, unwind, and be in the moment. We don’t have to think about anything, or pay attention to anything but breathing in some fresh air and meandering along. For others, it’s just as stressful as anything at home – you have to pay attention to traffic, or other people/dogs, etc.

It’s okay to take a walk by yourself.

A friend of ours has been working from home since March, 2020. She has two dogs that she adores and who adore her. And for the sake of her sanity, she employs a dog walker to take her dogs mid-day.

Partly it was to help the dog-walker, who lost a good chunk of her business when the stay-at-home orders took effect. But the other part was our friend giving herself permission to be alone. Sometimes she takes a walk by herself while her dogs are out. Sometimes she just relaxes. But she takes the time for herself and her equilibrium.

Appreciating togetherness

Some difficult days we don’t even want to get out of bed. We want to pull up the covers and cuddle with our dogs. Because our dogs are much loved and important members of the family. Those are the days we need comfort and surround ourselves with those we love, including our dogs.

There are other days we want to be alone. Every interaction feels like an intrusion. Those are the days when you grab your coat and keys, head out by yourself and take the time you need. Your dog will be waiting to greet you enthusiastically when you get back.

How to achieve stress-free car rides with dogs

Do you dread having to take your dog anywhere? Does your dog’s car anxiety stress you out, too?

Over the past year, most of us have been spending more time at home. We’ve haven’t been going much of anywhere, and neither have our dogs.

Our dogs familiarity with travel and car rides has lessened, and even those dogs who were accustomed to going places and doing things may now get nervous.

Name of the game

Booker and Tango are accustomed to the car and going places. — Pre-pandemic, Booker and Tango frequently rode in the car with Fran to trials and on road trips.

Familiarity is the key. Dogs, like us, get nervous in unfamiliar situations. Car rides with dogs qualify, especially if the only place the dog goes is scary.

Think about it from the dog’s perspective. If the only time he/she gets in the car is to go someplace where scary and/or painful things happen, you’d hate the car, too. Veterinary care and grooming are both necessary for our dogs, but neither is fun for the dog. Hope and Fran knew when they got puppies that as grown-up dogs they would be spending a lot of time in the car – going to obedience, rally and agility trials as well as on road trips, so they translated their crate training from the house to the car.

To turn things around and achieve stress-free car rides, start slowly, from the beginning.

Make it fun

Start where your dog’s anxiety begins. If he/she is nervous getting near the car, walk him her around the car, chattering calmly to your dog and delivering treats. Or play with a favorite toy near the car. Open and close the doors, all the while playing or rewarding for calm behavior.

Don’t force the dog to get closer, let them take it at their own pace. Coddling isn’t required – it’s not okay to be scared. Speak calmly and encourage exploration, but don’t force it and try not to get frustrated. You know there’s nothing to worry about. The task is to convince your dog that’s true.

Step by step

Like all 2-Minute training games, after a couple of minutes, you’re done for the session. You can come back to it later, but give your dog time to absorb the fact that he/she had fun near the big, scary, noisy thing.

When your dog is fine around the car, have him/her get in it. Again, give treats or play with a toy for a couple minutes. Reinforce for your dog that the car is a positive place.

When your dog can enjoy the treats or toy in the car, hook him/her up to whatever restraint you use in the car and have another play session. At this point, if you have another person who can help, one of you get in the driver’s seat while the other plays with, or gives treats to your dog.

Noisy scary

The next step is to have the dog in the car and turn on the engine. Make sure you’re outside, or the garage door is wide open to avoid carbon monoxide poisoning. Play or treat for a couple minutes. If you don’t have a helper, give your dog a treat-filled toy. Use a high-value food stuffed in the toy – peanut butter or spray cheese work well for most dogs.

If your dog is able to focus on his/her chew or treat toy, you’re well on your way to stress-free car rides with your dog. Take a short ride around the block and back home. As you’re able to take your dog in the car for longer periods, try going to a park or somewhere dog-friendly and playing a fun training game as we discussed in the post, “Take it on the road …”

Building on success

Stay at whatever step as long as you need to. If your dog is too nervous to take treats or play, stay there until she gets more comfortable. A nervous glance, then back to the game is fine. Rejecting the treats/toy due to nerves means your dog has reached his/her limit and you may even need to go back a step.

When you are able to progress to actual trips, be sure you go fun places where nothing bad happens. Take your dog to a park and go for a walk. Or a pet shop and let him/her choose a new toy. Then straight home.

Accentuate the positive

You can replace anxiety with anticipation if you teach your dog, step by step, that there’s nothing to worry about. As your dog gets used to new things, they’re less scary. If you make car rides routine fun, you’ll have stress-free car rides with your dog.

Wellbeing of dogs – caring for mind and body

If dogs are people’s best friends, it’s up to us to look out for the wellbeing of our dogs. Dogs give us the gift of unconditional love. We owe our companions the best life possible. That includes looking after their physical, as well as mental health.

All aspects of life

Dog training games provide mental stimulation and enrichment. We’ve talked about how the games also enhance our bond and relationship with dogs. But how can we improve our dogs physical wellbeing, too?

One of the easiest ways is incorporate balance and stability exercises into our training games. This is particularly important as our dogs age. Like us, dogs’ strength and balance can wane with the years if these capabilities aren’t exercised.

Exercise isn’t a four-letter word

Many people, us included, don’t particularly enjoy “working out,” or exercising. We do it because we know it’s good for us, and allows us to keep doing the things we love – like eating chocolate. Our dogs have a better attitude about working out. As far as they know – it’s just another game we play together. And our dogs are always up for a game.

The particular exercise games each dog plays depend on that dog’s wellbeing needs. For example, Fran’s Brussels Griffon Tango is a senior dog at 11 years old. He’s by far the most flexible dog we’ve ever had. We sometimes joke that he has no bones – only cartilage, like a shark. Fortunately, he doesn’t have the dental array of one.

Tango’s issue with wellbeing was that he lacked core strength. He can practically bend in half, but he couldn’t hold himself up for a trick like “sit pretty.” To address this lack, we started doing balance disc exercises with him, shown in the video. He does this routine with Fran almost every day and it’s made a huge difference. If you don’t have a balance disc, you can use any cushion big enough for your dog to stand on. The whole routine takes only a couple of minutes, and makes a major impact on the wellbeing of your dog. (This post has more about your dog’s balance and how you can incorporate these games into your training.)

Different issue

Torque, Hope’s French Bulldog, has different fitness needs. He’s extremely top-heavy, like all Frenchies. He tends to use his front half for everything he can, so the challenge is keeping his hips and back legs strong. Hope developed a routine for Torque of “squats” and “crouches.” Using a four-inch step, Torque steps off the back and crouches, sits on the step, steps off the front and squats. It helps work his whole body, with emphasis on using his knees and hips.

These exercise routines were presented to the dogs as new games, taught in little chunks and evolving over multiple training game sessions. The dogs don’t know they’re “working out,” because they never see sessions as work. Tango even complains when he sees other dogs doing balance disc routines – he’s impatient for his turn.

Wellbeing of dogs games

When you and your dog get in the great habit of 2-Minute dog training games, you’re taking the best care of your best friend. We know that addressing the needs of both mind and body allows everyone, including our dog, to live the best life.